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(Introduction)
Life. It's a beautiful gift, but it's also marked by moments that shake us to our core, experiences
that bring tears and pain. We all face trials; the Bible promises trouble for those who live and are
born. But what is trouble? What is hurt? Hurt can be internal, deeper than any visible wound.
Think of a time when you were physically hurt, but the emotional sting was even worse. I
remember a basketball practice where I fell hard, but the embarrassment of the whole team
watching was what really hurt. We all have those moments—situations that haunt us, that rock us
to our core. For me, that fall made me hesitant on the court. For you, it might be a loud noise that
triggers a past trauma, even years later. These are the hard falls—financial, moral, relational
spiritual—that an ice pack, a six-pack, or even four ibuprofen can't fix. These are the hurts, th
hangups that linger, the bruises that never fade, the triggers that stay. Until we recognize these
wounds, true healing is impossible. What is your hurt? What is your trauma? What is your
mountain?
(I. Recognizing the Wounds)
Psalm 147:3 tells us, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." We often hide our
harm, our broken hearts, our mistakes, masking the truth. Our wounds turn to worry, and we feel
unworthy of worship. We bury the past instead of working through the pain. Some of us are still
engaging in harmful behaviors, hiding the truth because we don't want to face the problem. We
hide what's harmed us, and it hurts us even more. "It's been 40 years, and I've never told
anyone...," some might say. "It was a family member, someone I trusted..." These unspoken
pains become explosives within us, ready to detonate. Some of us are still lying to ourselves,
avoiding the reality of our hurt. But if we don't deal with our pain, it will deal with us.
Emotionally, spiritually, physically, it takes a toll. Depression, anxiety, PTSD—these are real
consequences of unhealed hurt. The first step to healing is recognizing the hurt. Sometimes th
unseen hurt is the deepest.
(II. The Story of Hannah: Turning Hurt to the Healer)
Hannah knew what it was like when life hurt. She was barren, unable to have children, a pain
that went to her core. She wept and wouldn't eat (1 Samuel 1). Sometimes our pain is inflicted b
others. Hannah's pain wasn't something she did; it was something that happened to her. Her
husband, Elkanah, tried to comfort her, but his words missed the mark. "Am I not better than ten
sons?" he asked. What if this was God saying, "Hannah, am I not enough?" We often try to
replace God. Elkanah meant well, but he didn't understand her pain. When hurt walks into a
room, we should lift people up, not push them down. Calling out their pain, shaming their pain,
never helps. We must be present through the pain. Sometimes the best thing we can do is simply
say, "I'm here for you." That's what God says: "I will never leave you nor forsake you." Hannah,
in her bitterness of soul, prayed to the Lord (1 Samuel 1:10-11). She turned her hurt to her healer,
Jehovah-Rapha. Healing doesn't begin until we welcome the healer into our storm. Some of us
still think we can handle the hurt alone. We weren't made to carry these burdens alone. Hannah
cried out, "Lord, I need you!" She acknowledged her pain and released it to God. Have you
realized your pain? Have you released your pain?
(III. Receiving His Promise: The Path to Healing)
Hannah sought the Lord with her problem. She didn't fight the battle alone. Some of us hav
hurts we need to heal from. I held onto something that rocked me for seven years before I finall
cried out, "Lord, I need your help!" Where does our help come from? The Maker of heaven and
earth! Jeremiah 29:11 reminds us, "For I know the plans I have for you... plans to prosper you
and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." This is God's promise. We must
receive it. Isaiah 41:10: "So do not fear, for I am with you..." Romans 8:28: "And we know that
in all things God works for the good..." 2 Peter 1:4: "Through these he has given us his very
great and precious promises..." Philippians 4:19: "And my God will meet all your needs..."
Psalm 37:4: "Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart." Isaiah
40:31: "But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength..." Psalm 145:14: "The Lord
upholds all who fall..." Psalm 34:18-19: "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted..." Psalm
37:24: "Though he may stumble, he will not fall, for the Lord upholds him with his hand." These
are not just words; they are promises. They are the foundation of our healing.
(IV. The Impact of Hurt and the Power of Community)
Our hurt can have a ripple effect (Proverbs 18:14). An unexamined hurt can impact those around
us—our families, our friends, our communities. It can manifest in anger, bitterness, isolation. It
can even affect our physical health. 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 speaks of God's comfort, which enables
us to comfort others. We are called to carry each other's burdens (Galatians 6:2). We need a
community of empathy and understanding, a place where we can be vulnerable and find support
Healing is a journey, not a destination. It requires courage, vulnerability, and a willingness to
lean on God and on one another.
(V. Forgiveness: Breaking the Chains)
Forgiveness is a crucial part of the healing process. It's not about condoning what happened, but
about releasing the resentment that binds us. Ephesians 4:32: "Be kind and compassionate...
forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." Forgiveness is a choice, a process. It's
about letting go of the hurt and bitterness that poisons our hearts. Colossians 3:13: "Bear with
each other and forgive one another... Forgive as the Lord forgave you." Just as God forgave us,
we are called to forgive others. Matthew 6:14-15 reminds us of the connection between receiving
forgiveness and extending it. Forgiveness is not easy, but it is essential for our own healing.
(VI. Restoration and Freedom: Embracing a Healed Identity)
God promises restoration (Joel 2:25). He can redeem even the most broken parts of our lives.
Psalm 34:18: "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted..." The healing process takes time, but
God is with us every step of the way. Galatians 6:2 encourages us to carry each other's burdens.
We need community in this journey. John 8:36: "So if the Son sets you free, you will be free
indeed." Healing brings freedom – freedom from the pain of the past, freedom to live fully in the
present. Philippians 4:13: "I can do all this through him who gives me strength." A healed
identity is an empowered identity. We can then become agents of healing for others (2
Corinthians 1:4).
(Conclusion)
The journey of healing is not easy, but it is possible. It begins with recognizing our wounds,
releasing them to God, and receiving His promises. It involves forgiveness, restoration, and
embracing a healed identity. We are not meant to walk this path alone. We need God, and we
need each other. Let us be a community of compassion, offering support and encouragement to
those who are hurting. Let us walk in freedom, knowing that God is with us, healing us, and
restoring us.
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